I sometimes wonder what people mean, when
in response to my stock conversational opening:
how are things with you?
they say
I’m getting there.
where?
where are they getting?
if I enquire they generally respond with a vague
oh, you know, wherever.
but here’s the thing; I don’t know if they don’t tell me.
I’m not interested in the opening line of the story
unless they’re prepared to relate it to the end.
If, today, you ask me how things are,
although I rarely use the phrase
today I may say
I’m getting there,
and before you have time to feel irritated
by my seemingly meaningless reply
I will explain where I am getting today,
because I want you to know.
today, this week, this month,
I am spring cleaning my body and my mind;
I am walking away from the mire,
pulling off my mud-drenched socks,
rinsing them in a clean spring,
twisting out the moisture
and hanging them out to dry.
I am feeling stronger,
becoming fitter,
and feeling
happy.
©Jane Paterson Basil
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Well, there , sounds like a great place to be
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It’s a great improvement on some other places I’ve been 🙂
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Xoxo beautiful. Cleansing.
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Thankyou. I’ve been working out, to raise my endorphin level, and I recommend it for anyone who is grieving.
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Sounds like there’s some movement happening 🙂 Good for you !
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Oh yes, movement – an hour of gym every day. My endorphins are jumping for joy 🙂
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That is so good to hear, girlfriend!
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It could be said that I’ve been here before, but not like this. I have more strength and determination this time. 🙂
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{{{Jane}}} ❤
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Keep on spring cleaning, Jane, keep it up right through the year if it will result in a happier you & yours. But we don’t want a new you, we all like the prototype far too much☺x Anton
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Thank you Anton – the prototype needs a little adjusting here and there, but I prefer recycling to dumping, and most of my components are in reasonable working order, so I’m not planning to throw it away. 😀 x Jane
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Beautiful! I am on an adventure, like a safari—but far more dangerous! I am discovering who I am as a person in my middle years. I believe it will take longer than a spring season, but that’s okay. It took me over four decades to get here. That’s an adventure in itself! Thanks for sharing your post. 🙂
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Thank you Julie. It sounds as if you’re really getting there – or, rather, as if you’ve arrived 🙂
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