See my feet?
Imagine them being at the centre of a circle two meters in diameter.
Intimate friends and family and may stand toe-to-toe with me, within the ring. They may reach for my hand, put an arm round my shoulder, and in greeting or for comfort, give me a hug.
Those in need are also welcomed in, if my presence may help.
Aquaintances and associates may place their heels several centimetres within the line, but not come too close without my willing agreement. Fake affection is not permitted.
Those who would do harm to me, my loved ones or even an innocent stranger, must stay away from my territory, lest I invade theirs with my tapping fingers.
Written for The Daily Post #Territory
©Jane Paterson Basil
Yes! You step back, they step forward! I find cultivating halitosis helps.
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Thanks for the great advice, Judy – I’ll stop cleaning my teeth, eat even more blue cheese, and take up smoking and drinking cider.
I’m sure my family and friends will understand…
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They should have little spray cans of bad breath to sell just for such occasions.
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There could be money in that idea.
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WOW …!
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Totally get you. I’m not much different 🙂
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I’m finally learning to protect myself with boundaries…
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It is a long process. Good for you!
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It’s come a bit late in life – I should have learnt years ago…
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What a unique post! And very practical, too, I might add. LOVE the green tennies! It would have been interesting had you had other people standing as far from you as the next concentric circle would have been and then another. Like in intimate friends (which you have there), friends, acquaintances, or something like that. A pictorial guideline!
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I borrowed the image from Pixabay, and it was the closest I could get to what I wanted, but I think it was the All Stars that appealed more than anything…
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Lovely post!
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Thank you!
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Such a Brilliant Cautionary tale. 😎😉😇
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thank you Dorna 🙂
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