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The sandy circle has me in a trap,
encompassing endless expectations
which I must fulfil.
Duty-bound,
I hide the weariness
that acts of love may bring;
the generosity that oft-times
binds me to silent misery.
Familial responsibility
is my prison,
and yet,
should an angry tide
wash away the gritty line,
though life would be simplified,
I would be bereft.
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Written for The Sandbox Challenge 2012 – Exercise 12
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©Jane Paterson Basil
So Groovy True. 😎🥀😎🥀😎🥀
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Yup – the benefits of being a parent far outweigh the trials 🙂
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No doubt. No doubt. 🙂
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Oh Lordy, Jane… I SOO connect with your last thought there. We get so tired of being caregivers. But the truth is it’s so much a part of us that if we lose that role we’re a little lost. At least that’s how it feels to me… LOVED this!
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PS. Can I copy your poem into my poetry journal?
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I’d be delighted!
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Yay! Thanks!
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I should be thanking you for the compliment 🙂
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Thank you, Calen. I thought of you while I was writing it – I often do…
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Although I get what you’re saying, it makes me feel sad. Perhaps it’s the thought of it being an entrapment…..
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But it’s an entrapment that we choose when we become parents…
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I think it’s the word entrapment that grates with me. Perhaps my perception is coloured by the fact that our ‘choice’ to become parents was taken from us by fate , or whatever you want to call sterility, It led us down so many unexpected paths filled with hurt, pain, fear, disillusionment…. until we eventually had that little bundle of joy in our arms. I could not ever think of that as entrapment. Yes, there are obligations, challenges and such. But never is it an entrapment. I’ve looked at the dictionary definitions and they all include the word trickery…..so do we choose willfully to trick ourselves into a lifetime commitment of parenting? Aah, I’m rabbiting on….
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You have a point. I should have said it’s a trap that we choose, not an entrapment. I’ve been having a tough time with Paul. I think it’s influenced the words I use. He definitely entraps me, but that’s not normal behaviour toward a parent, especially bearing in mind that he’s thirty years old.
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I know, Jane 🙂 It’s me, being nit-picky from my perspective. I have read your email and you are well justified to feel entrapped xxx
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I no longer recognise the child I brought into the world…
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😦 *big hugs*
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Simple and true.. like a circle fingered in sand.
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I think few of us understand the responsibility we’re taking on when we choose to become parents., but it’s worth it.
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So glad to hear you say that, Jane.
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Oh, my word, lady, you are so right! Duty and responsibility hang heavy sometimes when all you want is to be you, to write, to think, to garden! But love pulls you back, makes you act for others, knowing all the while it would gut you were they gone.
So absolutely perfect, I’ve been stupid to try to articulate it myself when you did it so much better.
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No – you hit the sharp metal thing right on the bonce 🙂
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Haha! 🙂
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Have sent you an email. Know you’re busy just now with *the* day on the very doorstep. Hope it goes so very well xxxx
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Aargh! I haven’t been able to keep up with my emails – no internet and little time. I might not manage to get to it until tomorrow evening. I have to go to bed soon xxx
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No rush x
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I read it and replied.
Bedtime… xx
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Sleep well, sweet Princess xxxx
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Night-night xxxx
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love, love and triple love this Jane ❤
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Thank you! I’m sorry I’ve been a bit off the radar lately. It’ been manic around here. I’ll be able to catch up soon.
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Here too, even getting days off, fills up with company and dinners and cooking, oh my….but all good💜😊
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It’s sounds like fun – but it’s nice to get a bit of peace now and again 😉 xx
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